Some of what you said is true, but i feel like you are seeing some stuff too personally. I don’t see why giving you a book about paleo is harmful. I gave a book about vegetarian food to my cousin, she is almost a skeleton, so, so so thin, anorexically skin type, and she wanted to try vegetarian food, so i gave her a book, personally i really want her to eat, because she is too skinny, but my aunt thought that she would only eat salad and get more skinnier, and made a scene when i told her i would gave her daughter that book. And I said, auntie, am I skinny? i don’t eat meat and i have a appropriate weight, and beeing vegetarian doens’t mean eat salad, mean eat potatoes, bread, pasta and bread.. a lot of carbs :) and she stopped the scene. Sometimes we only see our side, and don’t understand the other person, and that’s why we feel so frustrated and thing everything is about us. And, gladly, it is not.
kisses